~Audi alteram partem~

You know your part of the story. Now hear the other side.
Cos everyone just want to be heard
.

14 Oct 2008

The Bottom Line
Disengage from people who exhibit childlike behavior. They will only slow you down.

In Detail
Trying to figure out what is motivating other people is a waste of your time, so if you have been wringing your hands over a mysterious situation, stop. If someone isn't going to tell you what you need to know, they aren't going to tell you --no matter how long you wait or how many hoops you jump through. Move on today, and disengage from such childlike behavior. They have been having too much fun stringing you along, and you're no puppet. Too bad for them.

Does everything have its ad nauseam?

ad nau·se·am (d nôz-m)
adv.
To a disgusting or ridiculous degree; to the point of nausea.
[Latin ad, to + nauseam, accusative of nausea, sickness.]
[Look in Google]

No matter what we do, no matter what we have, no matter good or bad, we'll get sick of it at some point.
In friendship, we get bored with each other, that's why we stop talking to or contacting each other.
Even couples divorce cos they sick of each other. Maybe they don't admit it, maybe they don't even realize it, but that could be the fact.
(Don't even make me start writing about family...)
That's could also be the reason we take things for granted.


-:-

"Yes I am, but I'd like to keep it that way. Now, leave me alone!"
Soundtrack of the day: Fighter by Christina Aguilera

Thank you for not believing in me; you make me learn to believe in myself...
"After all you've put me through, you'd think I despise you.
But in the end, I wanna thank you.
Cos you make me damn much stronger."

cinta dan matematika (hrs ngitung soalnya)

Silahkan main jg klo mau...

[x]pengen ketemu dia
[ ]mikirin kalo lagi ga ngapa2in
[x]selalu mikirin dy meski ad kerjaan
[x]senyum2 sendiri kalo lg mikirin dy
[ ]deg2an kalo ngbayangin wajahnya
so far: 3

[x]pengen dy sms kamu duluan
[x]pengen sms dy
[x]pengen dy nyapa kamu
[x]pengen ngobrol sm dy
[x]kdg pgn b2an
so far: 8

[ ]salting di depan dy
[ ]deg2an kalo dy ad d dkt kmu
[x]caper
[x]mencari keberadaannya
[x]spontan liat ke arah dy terus
so far: 11

[ ]berusaha buat ngbikin dy seneng
[x]cemburu liat dy ama cewe/ cowo lain
[ ]kl dtanya syp yg dsuka lgsg kpikiran dy
[x]nungguin sms dy
[x]pgn ksi sesuatu buat dy
so far: 14

[x]pgn meluk dy
[ ]pgn dy blg cinta
[ ]pgn dy menunjukkan rs cintanya
[ ]perna ngbayangin dicium dy
[ ]pgn milikin dy
so far: 15

nah skrg hasilna dkali 4...
15 × 4 = 60%
yah... "cinta" 60% doang.. haha..
"mỗi khi bên bạn không có ai.... thì hãy nhìn lên bầu trời đầy sao hay ánh nắng........ có thể là ở 1 nơi xa kia cũng đang có 1 người chia sẻ với bạn......"
*Quoted from someone's profile

"each side when you do not have one . please look up the skies full of stars or the sun .
may be in one place far there is one to share with you"

Merah Putih

First of all, happy birthday to my godbrother. Another year, eh, bro? :D
Wish all years in you life would be beautiful -just as you've made my life beautiful :) And please, stay being your strong self I've always known. I know we can't always be around each other as much as we want to, but I hope we'll stay like how we used to -err close-but-not-so-close? *lol*

Next, just want to write down my shoutout in my friendster :p
"Tell me, when you're looking down upon me, are you proud of who I am?"

O2Camp the 2nd day...

My team ready to fight the other team :D
Spot me?
Felix and Inez, before we leave for Sentosa (O2 Camp 26-27 Sept)
Oh, aren't they just cute?! *lol*

About today

1. Hari ini lebih baik dari kemaren?
gak, khusus hari ini, kmaren jauh lbh baik :(
2. Terakhir pergi mana?
ke kamar mandi, huaha..
3. Pergi terakhir dgn sapa?
with someone special :D :D
4. Ngapain aja?
hari ini? ritual pagi hari, kuliah, plg tdr, main internet d.
5. Yang kamu pelajari akhir-akhir ini?
wah, banyak banget. pljrn hidup gak abis2 nih..
6. Kamu setia?
dlm persahabatan, ya. dlm hal lain, gak janji d, huehe..
7. Tapi kamu ada pacar?
enggak. berminat? ngambil formulirnya di kls ku, bsk yah. haha..
8. Sayang ga?
ih, gak nyambung d.
9. Hari ini senang-senang?
gak, sedih! kmaren senang2nya, hehe..
10. Minuman terakhir yang masuk perut?
coffee, hehe..
11. Apa kamu cemburuan?
bisa diblg begitu.
12. Hal terakhir yang dilihat?
layar laptop.
13. Hal terakhir yang kamu tahan2?
duit kluar dr dompet (ktawan d, pelitnya)
14. Lagi deket sama?
*is confidential*
15. Cita -cita terakhir jadi?
jurnalis :)
16. Hal membingungkan yang terakhir dilakukan?
ngomong ama temen *swt, cape d*
17. Testi terakhir dari?
lolcatz :D
18. Curhat terakhir dengan?
buku diary :)
19. Hal terakhir yang masih kamu inget?
banyak dong.. aq gak menderita short-term memory loh..
20. Jatuh cinta terakhir sama?
awh! Jared Leto. haha..gakla, rhs d.
21. Ada berapa orang yang ada di otak kamu sekarang? siapa?
4. tmn2 kuliah..
22. Terakhir sebel sama?
maaf, nama disamarkan utk melindungi yg berdosa. hehe
23. Film terakhir yang ditonton?
Mirrors. lumayan loh, filmnya
24. Berita terakhir yang didengar?
eh, keboongan ssorg terbongkar, abis2an
25. Kalau temen kamu ngambil gebetan kamu?
awas 22nya! haha..gakla. bodo amat, I have better things to do.
26. Tugas terakhir yang dikerjain?
akun. duh, mati dah test minggu dpn. aq plg gak bisa akun. ssorg tlglah diriku!
27. Sebutin 1 nama "teman" yang kamu sayang?
teman dgn tanda kutip? please, klo aq sebutin, nyawa ssorg jd terancam.
28. Rencana hari ini mau ngapain aja?
uda malem om, plg baca2 ssuatu dikit trus bo2.
29. SMS terakhir dari?
Richery, huaha...
30. Feeling lu?
cape, cape, cape ati.
31. Lagu kesukaan lu sekarang ini?
awh, butterfly cry by kerli koiv
32.lagi pake baju apa?
bj tidur warna kuning.
33. mau balikan sm mantan?
enggak, makasih. gak dnger? when it's gone, it's gone, honey.
34. binatang kesukaan?
uler. ups!
35. terakhir meluk siapa?
pa2h
36. orang yg lagi lu kangenin?
hm.. tmn2 high school. hiks, miss u so much, guys!
37. lagu terakhir yang lu nyanyikan?
sama, butterfly cry by kerli koiv :D
38. kalau ada yg nembak lu?
kaget "huh?"
39. paling malem tidur jam berapa?
wah, pernah 36 jam kagak tdr.
40. besok mao bangun jam berapa?
7.40 as always